In writing The Long Way Round, I realized the memories I’d long dismissed as small were anything but. They were instructions. I learned early to read rooms — the shifts in tone, the silences, the instant something changes — without realizing that not everyone moves through a space with the same ease. Some of us cross a floor. Others are quietly mapping exits. I’d crossed many without seeing the geometry.
Hearing the heartfelt stories last night made that truth feel lived. What stays with me is how even brief crossings (a coworker, a neighbor, a stranger, etc.), can change how we see. Not all connections are lifelong. Some are slight, almost passing, and yet still alter the route ahead. I’m beginning to think those are the ones that redraw the map.
Love this essay, Robert. Reminds me of similar experiences I've had in my life, especially the expereince of your female colleague at the factory. I love the way you wrote about it. Sharon
Hearing you read this story aloud last evening was so extraordinary. Thank you for sharing it with us. Sharon
Sharon — that means a lot, especially from you.
In writing The Long Way Round, I realized the memories I’d long dismissed as small were anything but. They were instructions. I learned early to read rooms — the shifts in tone, the silences, the instant something changes — without realizing that not everyone moves through a space with the same ease. Some of us cross a floor. Others are quietly mapping exits. I’d crossed many without seeing the geometry.
Hearing the heartfelt stories last night made that truth feel lived. What stays with me is how even brief crossings (a coworker, a neighbor, a stranger, etc.), can change how we see. Not all connections are lifelong. Some are slight, almost passing, and yet still alter the route ahead. I’m beginning to think those are the ones that redraw the map.
Love this essay, Robert. Reminds me of similar experiences I've had in my life, especially the expereince of your female colleague at the factory. I love the way you wrote about it. Sharon